I just found the following posted on
fandomsecrets:

And, really... well, to start with I'm not even sure it counts as a "fandom" secret, but you could say the same of a lot of posts there.
That's not the main issue, anyway. The issue I have is that the OP of that secret, who I'm assuming isn't, say, Neil Gaiman's exwife, is making a poorly informed judgement on the relationship of two people he/she has most likely never met.
It's how poorly informed they seem to be that really gets me. It is easy - very, very easy - to go online, look at Neil's and/or AFP's blogs, and with extremely minimal effort you can find out that actually, he's still good friends with his exwife and that she gets on well with his kids.
As for the "loss of respect"... well. Maybe the OP's definition of respect is different to mine, because I've never
lost respect for anyone based on their choice of romantic partner. (Saying that AFP "should have known better" is just dumb, judgemental and poorly informed, thus I will not comment further.)
tl;dr: some anonymous person on the interwebs was excessively judgemental. Two people that I, personally, respect and admire are in a happy relationship together, and it's none of anyone's business but theirs.
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